-It’s great being in a relationship
-It’s great being single
-It’s great being married
-It’s great being divorced
Relationship status doesn’t determine happiness or level of loneliness. I meet people everyday that are happy and miserable in and out of relationships. As human beings we come into this world with both internal and external conflict. There is no surprise that we would continue to have conflict with our significant others and ourselves. It is natural to desire to pair bond, but it is hazardous to define a person’s worth based on their relationship status.
The key is to do the work to heal ourselves and learn to be better individuals. It is up to each individual to develop ways to connect to their environment in the most optimal and healthiest way. The healing can occur in and out of a relationship. Some people grow past their insecurities and wounds by being with others and some people need to be single. It is something that people learn through self-awareness and maturity. Whether you are single or in a relationship enjoy your present status. There are great lessons to be learned in the present moment. Enjoy your growing process.